H ere are some of the most frequently asked questions I hear from couples. If you don’t find your question here, please email me or call 703-951-7090.
How do we check on your availability?
The easiest way to do this is to use the “Check Availability” button in the right column of this page. Click on the plus (“+”) sign to open the calendar.
Where do you officiate at weddings?
Northern Virginia, Washington, DC, and Southern Maryland.
What is the cost for you to officiate a wedding?
The all-inclusive fee to officiate at your wedding is $600. This is a flat-rate fee with no hidden costs. This fee includes a pre-ceremony meeting, emails and telephone calls, development of a personalized ceremony script and all revisions, coordinating your rehearsal at a mutually-convenient time, officiating at the ceremony, and processing the marriage license. These services may vary based on the needs and desires of the couple.
What kinds of marriage ceremonies do you perform?
All kinds. From ceremonies that are Catholic or interfaith to those with a spirituality of their own. My job is to help you tell your story and to do so in a way that is joyful and respects your current values and beliefs.
Do we have to be a member of your Church to be married by you?
Not al all. My wedding ministry is open to all. I would be honored to officiate at your wedding.
Can we personalize our wedding?
I encourage it and that’s what makes me unique. There are many ways this can be accomplished. Options for readings, both from the scriptures and other sources are available. You can write your own vows or select from more traditional or contemporary options. Unity or sand candles, love locks, hand fasting, roses to parents and other activities can be easily included.
Can we have a traditional Catholic Wedding Mass?
Yes. Your wedding ceremony can be very similar to that celebrated by the Roman Catholic Church since we share the same liturgical form. Because we are ecumenical in spirit, all wedding guests are invited to communion regardless of religious affiliation.
Can we have a wedding ceremony outside of Mass?
Definitely. Together, we can design a wonderful ceremony and this service can be anywhere that you want. Location is never an issue.
Will you honor our values and beliefs and help us express them?
Absolutely! I offer personalized wedding ceremonies that are designed to be a reflection of who you are and the statement that you want your wedding to make. This is about you, not me.
Will you marry someone in a location other than a church?
Yes. I officiate at weddings in many locations both inside and outdoors.
How long are your ceremonies?
On average, between 20-30 minutes.
Do you officiate at same-sex marriages?
Yes. We affirm the dignity and worth of gays and lesbians believing that GLBT equality is a civil right. I would be honored to officiate at your wedding.
Can our friends or family participate in the service?
Yes. This can make your ceremony very personal.
I've been divorced and want to remarry. Can you officiate at my wedding?
Absolutely. I rejoice that you have found love. Together, we can design a wonderful ceremony with all the elements that speak to you.
Is premarital counseling required?
No. Your decision whether to use premarital counseling is entirely your own.
Who will get our marriage license?
You will. The legal requirement is that you get your marriage license from the state (city or county) where the marriage ceremony will take place. Securing your marriage license is a legal requirement before the marriage ceremony can be performed. After the ceremony, I will process and sign the license and return it to the appropriate government agency.
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